Certain neurotic mechanisms in jealousy, paranoia and homosexuality 1922-002/1923
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    THE INTERNATIONAL JOURNAL

    OF
    PSYCHO-ANALYSIS
    VOLUME IV JAN.—APR. 1923 ° PARTS ı 82

    ORIGINAL ARTICLES

    CERTAIN NEUROTIC MECHANISMS IN JEALOUSY,
    PARANOIA AND HOMOSEXUALITY

    BY
    SIGM. FREUD
    VIENNA

    A. Jealousy is one of those affective states, like grief, that may be
    described as normal. If anyone appears to be without it, the
    inference is justified that it has undergone severe repression and
    consequently plays all the greater part in his unconscious mental
    life. The instances of abnormally intense jealousy met with in
    analytic work reveal themselves as constructed of three layers. The
    three layers or stages of jealousy may be described as (I) competitive
    or normal, (2) projected, and (3) delusional jealousy.

    There is not much to be said from the analytic point of view
    about normal jealousy. It is easy to see that essentially it is
    compounded of grief, the pain caused by the thought of losing the
    loved object, and the narcissistic wound, in so far as this is
    distinguishable from the other wound; further, of feelings of enmity
    against the successful rival, and of a greater or lesser amount of
    self-criticism which tries to hold the person himself accountable for
    his loss. Although we may call it normal this jealousy is by no
    means completely rational, that is, derived from the actual situation,
    proportionate to the real circumstances and under the complete
    control of the conscious ego; for it is rooted deep in the unconscious, it
    is a continuation of the earliest stirrings of the child’s affective
    life and it originates in the Oedipus or family complex of the first

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    sexual period, Moreover;it is noteworthy that in many persons
    it is experienced Bisexually; that’is to say, in a man, beside the
    suffering in regard to the loved woman and the hatred against the
    male rival, grief in regard to the unconsciously loved man and
    hatred of the woman as a rival will add to its intensity. I even
    know of a man who suffered exceedingly during his attacks of
    jealousy and who," according to his own account, went through
    unendurable torments by consciously imaginitig.himself in the position
    of the faithless woman. The sensation of helplessness which then
    came over him, the images he used to describe his condition — exposed
    to the vulture’s beak like Prometheus, or cast fettered into a serpent's
    den—he himself referred to the impressions received during several
    homosexual aggressions which he had undergone as a boy.

    The jealousy of the second layer, the projected, is derived in
    both men and women either from their own actual unfaithfulness
    in real life or from impulses towards it which have succumbed to
    repression. It is a matter of everyday experience that fidelity,
    especially that degree of it required in marriage, is only main-
    , tained in the face of«continual temptation. Anyone who denies this

    in himself will nevertheless be impelled so strongly in the direction
    of infidelity that he will be glad enough to make use of an unconscious
    mechanism as an alleviation. This reliee—more, absolution by his
    conscience—he achieves when he projects his own impulses to
    infidelity on to the partner to whom he owes faith. This weighty
    motive can then make use of the material at hand (perception-
    material) by which the unconscious impulses of the partner are
    likewise betrayed, and the person can justify himself with the
    reflection that the other is probably not much better than he is
    himself.t

    "Social conventions have taken this universal state of things into

    account very adroitly, by granting a certain amount of scope to
    the married woman’s thirst to find favour in men’s eyes and
    the married man’s thirst to capture and possess, in the expectation
    that this inevitable tendency to unfaithfulness will thus find a safety-
    valve and be rendered innocuous. Convention has laid down that
    neither partner is to hold the other accountable for these little

    1 cp. Desdemona’s Song:

    I called my love false love; but what, said he then?
    If I court moe women, yowIl couch with! moe men,

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    excursions in-the.
    result on the wi
    object is gratified b;

    once the path has! been trod,. nor
    arsafeguard against”actual infidelity. ‚In
    the treatment öf a ‚son like this one must refrain from
    disputing with him the material on which he bases his suspicic
    one can only aim at bringing ‚him to regard the matter
    different light. “
    . The jealousy that arises : from this projection‘ has, it is true,an _
    almost delusional character; it is, however, amenable to the analytie
    work of exposing the unconscious ‚phantasies of personal infidelity.
    The jealousy of the third layer, the true delusional type, is worse.
    It also has its ori, repressed impulses towards unfaithfulness—
    the object, however, these ı cases is of the same sex as the subject. .
    Delusional jealousy represents an acidulated homosexuality, and
    rightly täkes its position among the classical forms of paranoia. As;
    an attempt at defence against an unduly strong homosexual impulse
    it may, in a man, be described in the formula: “Indeed I do not love
    him, she loves him!’® Ina delusional case one will be prepared to
    find the jealousy arisiny three layers, never in the third alone. Et :
    B. Paranoia. Cases tanoia are for well-known reasons not e. EREBE a
    usually amenable > analı gation. I’have recently been able, - : ;

    social “flirtatic

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    heterosexual libido the homosexual component, likewise stimulated
    by the act, forced for itself an outlet in the attack of jealousy.

    The jealousy of the attack drew its material from his observation
    of the smallest possible indications, in which the utterly unconscious
    coquetry of the wife, unnoticeable to any other person, had betrayed
    itself to him. She had unintentionally touched the man sitting next
    her with her hand; she had turned too much towards him, or she
    had smiled more pleasantly than when alone withher husband. Toall
    these manifestations of her unconscious feelings he paid extra-
    ordinary attention and always knew how to interpret them correctly,
    so that he really was always in the right about it, and could justify
    his jealousy still more by analytic interpretation. His abnormality
    really reduced itself to this, that he watched his wife’s unconscious
    mind much more closely and then regarded it as far more important
    than anyone else would have thought of doing.

    We are reminded that sufferers from persecutory paranoia act
    in just the same way. They too cannot regard anything in others as
    indifferent, and into their ‘ delusions of reference’ they too take up
    the smallest possible indications which these others, strangers, offer
    them. The meaning of their delusion of reference is that they
    expect from every stranger something like love; these ‘others’
    show them nothing of the kind, however—they laugh to themselves,
    fiddle with their sticks, even spit on the ground as they go by—and
    one really does not do these things while anyone in whom one
    takes a friendly interest is near. One does them only when one
    is quite indifferent to the passer-by, when one can treat him
    like air; and when we consider the fundamental kinship of the
    words “stranger ’ and ‘enemy’, the paranoiac is not so far wrong in
    regarding this indifference as hate, in comparison with his claim
    for love.

    We begin to see that we describe the behaviour of both jealous
    and persecuted paranoiacs very inadequately by saying that they
    project outwards on to others what they do not wish to recognize in
    themselves.

    Certainly they do this; but they do not project it into the sky,
    so to speak, where there is nothing of the sort already. They let
    themselves be guided by their knowledge of the unconscious, and
    displace to the unconscious minds of others the attention which
    they have withdrawn from their own. Our jealous husband perceives
    his wife’s unfaithfulness instead of his own; by becoming conscious

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    of hers and magnifying it enormously he succeeds. in keeping
    unconscious his own, If we accept his example as typical, we may
    infer that the enmity which the persecuted paranoiac sees in,others
    is the reflection of his own hostile impulses against them. Since we
    know that with the paranoiac it is precisely the most loved person
    of his own sex that becomes .his persecutor, the question arises where
    this reversal of affect takes its origin; the answer is not far to seek—
    the ever-present ambivalence of the feelings provides its source and
    the unfulfilment of his claim for love strengthens it. This
    ambivalence thus serves the same purpose for the persecuted
    paranoiac as jealousy serves for our patient—that of a defence
    against homosexuality.

    The dreams of my jealous patient contained a great surprise for
    me. They were not simultaneous with the outbreaks of the attacks,
    though they occurred within the period influenced by the delusion;
    they were completely free from the delusion and showed themselves
    based on. homosexual tendencies which were disguised no more
    strictly than usual. In view of my slight knowledge of the dreams
    of paranoiacs I was inclined to suppose at that time that the disease
    did not penetrate into dreams.

    The homosexuality of this patient was easily surveyed. He had
    made no friendships and developed no social interests; one had the
    impression that the delusion had constituted the first actual
    development of his relations with men, as if it had taken over a
    piece of work that had been neglected. The fact that his father was
    of no great importance in the family life, combined with a humiliat-
    ing homosexual trauma in early childhood, had forced his homo-
    sexuality into repression and barred the way to its sublimation. The
    whole of his youth was governed by a strong attachment to his
    mother. Of all her many sons he was her declared favourite, and
    he developed marked jealousy of the normal type in regard to her.
    When later he made his choice of a wife—mainly prompted by the
    impulse to enrich his mother—his longing for a virgin mother
    expressed itself in obsessive doubts about his wife’s virginity.. The
    first years of his marriage were free from jealousy. Then he became
    unfaithful to his wife and entered upon an intimate relationship
    with another woman that lasted for a considerable time. Startled
    by a certain suspicion he at length made an end of this love affair,
    and not until then did the jealousy of the second, projected’ type
    break out, by means of which he was able to assuage his self-

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    reproaches about his own unfaithfulness. It was soon complicated
    by an accession of homosexual impulses, of which his father-in-law
    was the object, and became a fully-formed jealousy paranoia.

    My second case would probably not have been classified as
    persecutory paranoia without analysis: but I had to recognize the
    young man as a candidate for this termination of the illness. In
    his attitude to his father there existed an ambivalence which in its
    range was quite extraordinary. On the one hand, he was the most
    pronounced rebel imaginable, and had developed manifestly in every
    directien in opposition to his father’s wishes and ideals; on the other
    hand, at a deeper level he was still the most utterly abject son, in
    loving remorse after his father’s death denying himself all enjoyment
    of women. His actual relations with men were clearly dominated
    by suspiciousness; his keen intellect easily rationalized this attitude;
    and he knew how to bring it about that both friends and acquaintances
    deceived and exploited him. The new thing I learned from
    studying him was that classical persecution-ideas may be present
    without finding belief or acceptance. They flashed up occasionally
    during the analysis, but he regarded them as unimportant and
    invariably scoffed. at them. This may occur in many cases of
    paranoia; it may be that the delusions which we regard as new
    formations when the disease breaks out have already long been in
    existence,

    It seems to me that this is an important recognition —namely,
    that the qualitative factor, the presence of certain neurotic for-
    mations, has less practical significance than the quantitative factor,
    he degree of attention, or more correotly, the measure of cathexis
    that these formations engage. Our consideration of the first case,
    the jealousy paranoia, led to a similar estimate of the importance
    of the quantitative factor, by showing that there also the abnormality
    essentially consisted in the hyper-cathexis (over-investment) of the
    interpretations of another’s unconscious behaviour. We have long
    known of an ‘analogous fact in the analysis of hysteria. The
    pathogenic phantasies, derivatives of repressed instinctual trends,
    are for a long time tolerated alongside the normal life of the mind,
    and have no pathogenic effect until by a revolution in the libido-
    economy they undergo hyper-cathexis; not till then does the conflict °
    which leads to symptom-formation break out. Thus as our knowledge
    increases we are ever being impelled to bring the economic point of
    view into the foreground. I should also like to throw out the

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    question whether this quantitative factor that [am now dwelling on
    does not suffice to cover the‘phenomena for which Bleuler and others
    have lately wished to’ introduce the term switching’, One need
    only assume that increased resistance in one direction of the psychical
    currents results in hyper-cathexis ‚along some;other path and thus
    causes the whole current to.be switched into this path.

    The dreams of my two cases .of paranoia showed .an instructive
    contrast. Whereas those of the first case were free from delüsion,
    as has already been said, the other patient produced great numbers
    of persecution-dreams, which. may be regarded as fore-runners or
    substitutive formations of the delusional ideas. ‘The pursuer, from
    whom he managed to escape ‘only in terror, was usually a
    powerful bull or some other male symbol which even in the
    dream itself he sometimes recognized as representing his father.
    One day he produced a very characteristic paranoiac transference-
    dream. He saw me shaving in front of him, and from the scent of
    the soap he realized that I was using the same soap as his father
    had used. I was doing this in order to induce in him a father-
    transference on to myself. The choice of this incident out of which
    the dream was formed unmistakably betrays the patient’s depreciatory
    attitude to his paranoiac phantasies and his disbelief in them; for
    his own eyes could tell him.every day that I never require to avail
    myself of shaving-soap and that therefore there was in this respect
    nothing to which a father-transference could attach itself.

    A comparison of the dreams of the two patients shows, however,
    that the question whether or not paranoia (or any other psycho-
    neurosis) can penetrate into dreams-is based on:a false conception of
    dreams. Dreams are distinguishable from. waking thought in that
    for their content they: can'.draw from material (belonging to the
    region of the unconscious) which‘ cannot emerge in waking thought.
    Apart from this, dreams are merely a form. of thinking, a trans-
    formation of preconscious:thought-material by the dream-work and
    its conditions. Our terminology of the neuroses is not applicable
    to repressed material; this cannot be called hysterical, nor obsessional,
    nor paranoiac. The other part of the material which is woven into
    the structure of a, dream, the preconscious thoughts, may be normal
    or may bear the character of any neurosis; they may be the effects of
    all those pathogenie processes in which the essence of neurosis lies. It
    is not evident why any suchmorbid idea should not become woven into

    dreams. A dream may therefore quite simply’ represent an hysterical
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    phantasy, an obsessional idea, or a delusion, that is, may reveal it
    upon interpretation. Observation of the two paranoiacs shows that
    the dreams of the one were quite normal while he was subject to
    his delusion, and that those of the other were paranoiac in content
    while he treated his delusional ideas with contempt. In both cases,
    therefore, the dream took up the material that was at the time being
    forced into the background in waking life. This too, however, need
    not necessarily be an invariable rule.

    C. Homosexuality. Recognition of the organic factor in homo-
    sexuality does not relieve us of the obligation of studying the
    psychical processes of its origin. The typical process, already
    established in innumerable cases, is that a few years after the
    termination of puberty the young man, who until this time has been
    strongly fixated to his mother, turns in his course, identifies himself
    with his mother, and looks about for love-objects in whom he can
    re-discover himself, and whom he wishes to love as his mother loved
    him. The characteristic mark of this process is that usually for
    several years one of the “conditions of love’ is that the male object
    shall be of the same age as he himself was when the change took
    place. We know of various factors contributing to this result,
    probably in different degrees. First there is the fixation on the
    mother, which renders passing on to another woman difficult. The
    identification with the mother is an outcome of this attachment, and
    at the same time in a certain sense it enables the son to keep true
    to her, his first object. Then there is the inclination towards a
    narcissistic object-choice, which lies in every way nearer and is
    easier to put into effect than the move towards the other sex. Behind
    this factor there lies concealed another of quite exceptional strength,
    or perhaps it coineides with it: the high value set upon the male
    organ and the inability to tolerate its absence in a love-object.
    Depreciation of women, and aversion from them, even horror of
    them, are generally derived from the early discovery that women
    have no penis. We subsequentiy discovered, as another powerful
    motive urging towards the homosexual object-choice, regard for
    the father or fear of him; for the renunciation of women means that
    all rivalry with him (or with all men who may take his place) is
    avoided. The two last motives, the clinging to the condition of a
    penis in the object as well as the retiring in favour of the father,
    may be ascribed to the castration complex. Attachment to the
    mother, nareissism, fear of castration—these are the factors

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    (which by the way have nothing specific about them) that we have
    hitherto found in the ‚psychical aetiology of homosexuality; and on
    them is superimposed the effect of any seduction bringing about a
    premature fixation of the libido, as well as the influence of the
    organic factor favouring the passive röle in love.

    We have, however, never regarded this analysis of the origin of
    homosexuality as complete; and I can now point to a new mechanism
    leading to homosexual object-choice, although I cannot say how large
    a part it plays in the formation of the extreme, manifest, and
    exclusive type of homosexuality. Observation has directed my
    attention to several cases in which during early childhood feelings
    of jealousy derived from the mother-complex and of very great
    intensity arose against rivals, usually older brothers. This jealousy
    led to an exceedingly hostile aggressive attitude against brothers
    (or sisters) which might culminate in actual death-wishes, but
    which could not survive further development, Under the influences
    of training—and certainly not uninfluenced also by their own con-
    stant powerlessness—these feelings yielded to repression and to a
    transformation, so that the rivals of the earlier period became the
    first homosexual love-objects. Such an outcome of the attachment
    to the mother shows various interesting relations with other
    processes known to us. First of all it is a complete contrast to the
    development of persecutory paranoia, in which the person who has
    before been loved becomes the hated persecutor, whereas here the
    hated rivals are transformed into love-objects. It represents too an
    exaggeration of the process which according to my view leads to
    the birth of social instincts in the individual In both processes
    there is first the presence of jealous and hostile feelings which
    cannot achieve gratification; and then both the personal affectionate
    and the social identification-feelings arise as reaction-formations
    against the repressed aggressive impulses.

    This new mechanism in the homosexual object-choice, its origin
    in rivalry which has been overcome and in aggressive impulses
    which have become repressed, is often combined with the typical
    conditions known to us. In the history of homosexuals one often
    hears that the change in them took place after the mother had praised
    another boy and set him up as a model. The tendency to a

    ® See Group Psychology and the Analysis of the Ego. International
    Psycho-Analytical Press, 1922.

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    narcissistic object-choice was thus stimulated and after a short phase
    of keen jealousy the rival became a love-object. Otherwise, however,
    the new mechanism is a separate one, in that the change takes place
    at a much earlier period and the identification with. the mother
    recedes into the background. Moreover, in the cases I have observed
    it led only to homosexual attitudes which did not exelude hetero-
    sexuality and did not involve a horror of women.

    It is well-known that a good number of homosexual persons is
    distinguished by a special development of the social instinets and
    by a devotion to the interests of the community. It- would be
    tempting, as a theoretical explanation of this, to say that the
    behaviour towards men in general of a man who sees in other men
    potential love-objects must be different from that of a man who
    looks upon other men first as rivals in regard to women. Against
    this there is only the objection that jealousy and rivalry play their
    part in homosexual love also, and that the community of men also
    includes these potential rivals.. Apart from this speculative
    explanation, however, the fact that the homosexual object-choice not
    rarely proceeds from an early conquest of the rivalry in regard to
    men cannot be unimportant for the connection between homo-
    sexuality and social feeling.

    In the light of psycho-analysis we are accustomed to regard
    social feeling as a sublimation of homosexual attitudes towards
    objects. In the homosexual person with marked social interests the
    detachment of social feeling from object-choice has not been fully
    carried through.